Book Description | When his widowed father - once a high court judge and always a formidable figure - drifted into vagueness if not dementia, the writer Adam Mars-Jones took responsibility for his care. Intimately trapped in the London flat where the family had always lived, the two men entered an oblique new stage in their relationship. In the aftermath of an unlooked-for intimacy, Mars-Jones has written a book devoted to particular emotions and events. Kid Gloves is a highly entertaining book about (among other things) families, the legal profession, and the vexed question of Welsh identity. It is necessarily also a book about the writer himself - and the implausible, long-delayed moment, some years before, when he told his sexually conservative father about his own orientation, taking the homophobic bull by the horns. The supporting cast includes Ian Fleming, the Moors Murderers, Jacqueline Bisset and Gilbert O'Sullivan, the singer-songwriter whose trademark look kept long shorts from their rightful place on the fashion pages for so many years. |
Editorial Review | He has written the truth as he saw it, and written it with passion, charm - and self-awareness -- Craig Brown * Mail on Sunday * The book brims with humour and each sentence is a delight to read -- Andrew Wilson * Independent * This glorious memoir - funny and poignant in equal measure -- Brian Viner * Daily Mail * There is much that is moving in Mars-Jones's memoir of his father... The writing sings with cleverness and wit -- Claudia FitzHerbert * The Sunday Telegraph * Mars-Jones's memoir, clotted and rich and true, does its job rather well -- Rachel Cooke * New Statesman * The account... of caring for his father is especially touching -- Kate Kellaway * The Observer * Intensely written -- Elisa Segrave * The Spectator * His most remarkable book to date, which is in turns knowing and dextrous, hilarious and poignant -- Richard Canning * Literary Review * Mars-Jones's achievement in Kid Gloves is to portray such painful moments with humour and grace... Kid Gloves is full of truth about the ironies of family life, of the ways that we define ourselves through our parents and against them -- Bee Wilson * Sunday Times * The book brims with humour and each sentence is a delight to read. It also contains - courtesy of an extended metaphor drawn from Jane Grigson's recipe for cooking salmon in a court-bouillon - one of the best descriptions of sibling rivalry in contemporary literature. Above all, it is a celebration of language, a love shared by father and son alike -- Andrew Wilson * Independent * He has written the truth as he saw it, and written it with passion, charm - and self-awareness -- Craig Brown * Mail on Sunday * While waiting for more of Adam Mars Jones's gripping Pilcrow sequence, I was beguiled by Kid Gloves (Particular Books), his memoir of his high court judge father, which is witty, sardonic and humane. There are some entertaining legal set pieces, one revolving round James Bond and Ian Fleming, and a great account of young Adam's coming out as gay over the New Year of 1977. His father was homophobic but came round, though he never seemed able to remember Adam's partner's name. one of the funniest passages describes Dad's irritation at not being able to cram all his honorifics on to his American Express Gold Card: he has to abbreviate them to |